I got a reality check yesterday when I got a call from a friend who is helping me coach our Odyssey of the Mind team and she was crying because she had just lost a friend yesterday who had been ill. I was thinking of my troubles with losing things on my computer and they didn't seem quite so bad anymore-- I still have my family and the memories in my head!
Then I found out that one of my own friends, not real close but I have spent lots of time with her over the four years we've lived in Lancaster, just died suddenly of a heart attack on Tuesday evening. She left her husband and two beautiful daughters (middle school ages). It just breaks my heart! I took Ellie out for a walk and that is where we spent time together-- walking the path behind our home-- and I just cried. Maybe it's the age I am now, that these things might happen more often. It isn't easy to think about. Heart health is something that women need to pay closer attention to!!! I will miss Cathy and there seems to be a void in my world now...
The sun is shining today... it is a beautiful day. I guess those of us who are still here need to pick up and go on. And keep appreciating all the beautiful things that are still in our lives.
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5 comments:
I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. When someone we know dies, it hurts. I am reminded that death shouldn't happen.
Beth, You are so right. I was thinking about your PC and the loss of the information. It did hit me that it is just STUFF. We are selfish wanting everyone to stay here with us on earth. It has been years and there are days I wish my dad was still here. We are given a gift and need to enjoy every day. That is easier said then done - or written in this case!
Sorry to hear of the lost friends. Yes, sometimes we just have to pick up and keep moving. And crying sometimes releases the icky feeling that comes with this stuff.
I'm glad you had a beautiful day and a walk. That's what life is all about. Walking in the sun with loved ones.
It's so hard to lose anyone but of course we all have to pick up and carry on. Some days it doesn't seem right or fair but you are right that we need to appreciate the days we have.
take care xx
How very sad - I'm so sorry to read about these losses and I'm sorry that you lost your friend Bethany! ((((hugs))))
It is so hard to say goodbye.. I guess we grieve, and then carry on IN THEIR HONOR.
Hang in there sweetie!
xo,
Kim
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